Deciding you shouldn't lead Sonoko on, you inform your friend that you have no intention of dating her and apologise for giving the wrong impression. You decide also to avoid Sonoko for a few weeks so that she can recover from heartbreak. One night out at the bar, you're drinking some sake and start to become a bit drunk. Another gentleman, tall, slender and lean, gives you a wink and slides down a glass of sake to you. Looking dumbfoundedly at the cup then again at the man, he winks at you one more time.
Do you...
Take the sake and talk to the man